Family

A Family is like a circle
the connection never ends
and even if at times it breaks
in time it always mends
a family is like the stars
somehow there always there
families are those who help
who support and always care
A Family is like a book
the endings never clear
but through the pages of the book
their love is always near
A family is many things
with endless words that show
who they are and what they do
and how they teach you so you know
but don’t be weary if it's broken
or if through time its been so worn
families are like that-
they're split up and always torn
but even if this happens
your family will always be
they help define just who you are
and will be apart of you eternally

Protect your own Armour

We recently had a great family home evening lesson put together by
one of our kids (with my husband's help).  This is what they did:

They had an orange and a big clear picture of water. Our son
asked the family if they thought the orange would float or sink.
The family gave their guesses and then they put the orange in the
container of water and it floated.  Then our son asked what we
thought would happen if the orange was peeled.  Then they peeled
the orange and put it back in the water and it sank.

By Wendy


Then they had us read the bible from Ephesians 6:11-20 about
putting on the whole armor (or armour) of God.  Verse 6 reads: "Put
on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against
the wiles of the devil."

The they explained that the orange with its peel on is like having
the armour of God on.  With its "armour" the orange is able to rise
above the things of the world.  When it is stripped of its armour
then it is pulled down by the things of the world.

They explained what the armour is as listed in Ephesians, and what we
can do to protect our own "armour" in order to rise above the things
of the world.  Then they challenged us to pick an area where we can
improve and work on this throughout the week.  Try this lesson in
your own homes!

So, like a forgotten fire, a childhood can always flare up again within us.

Children ask better questions than adults.  "May I have a cookie?" "Why is the sky blue?" and "What does a cow say?" are far more likely to elicit a cheerful response than "Where's your manuscript?" Why haven't you called?" and "Who's your lawyer?"  

Grown-ups never understand anything for themselves, and it is tiresome for children to be always and forever explaining things to them.

When I grow up I want to be a little boy.

SO much for Growing up!!!

Making the decision to have a child is momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body

"What's the difference between couplehood and babyhood?"
In a word? Moisture. Everything in my life is now more moist. Between your spittle, your diapers, your spit-up and drool, you got your baby food, your wipes, your formula, your leaky bottles, sweaty baby backs, and numerous other untraceable sources--all creating an ever-present moistness in my life, which heretofore was mainly dry.


Teacher :Which letter Comes after "A"
Dennis : All of them.
(oh Yeah?)


Ten tiny little fingers that always want to play,
That never stop exploring the wonder of today.
Ten tiny little fingers that from the very start,
Will reach out for tomorrow yet always hold your heart.


The smile that flickers on baby's lips when he sleeps- does anybody know where it was borne? Yes, there is a rumor that a young pale beam of a crescent moon touched the edge of a vanishing autumn cloud, and there the smile was first born . . .
-- Rabindranath Tagore

"COURAGE DOESN'T ALWAYS ROAR"

      When life gets you down and the
      Problems you face are certainly
      More than your share......

      When you run out of strength and
      And you want to give up because
      It's just too much to bear.....

      I want to remind you, my precious
    one... that you have what it takes
      Inside ....Extraordinary courage
      That may not Roar, but it doesn't
      Cower and hide.

      It's the quiet voice inside you that
      Says "Tomorrow I'll try again".  It's
      The courage to keep on going.....
      To see things through to the end.

      You are defined by this moment in
      Time.  You are not what has happened
      To you.  It's the way that you choose
      To respond that matters.

      What you decide to do. Courage is not
      The absence of fear. It is Valiant women
      Of exceptional courage, with enduring
      Power to cope....Taking each problem
      One day at a time, never giving up HOPE.

      But the powerful choices we make,
      It's the choice to move forward with
      Purpose and joy, regardless of what
      It takes. It's the courage that's found
      In ordinary women, who are there in
      Their own way...Exhibiting faith and
      Strength in life's challenges everyday.

      They give the permission to feel
      Disappointed and sad. But then empower
      Themselves with faith...to focus on good
      Things....not bad.

      Their story is one of gentle strength,
      Reminding us all once more;  Steel is
      Sometimes covered in velvet and
      Courage doesn't always ROAR!

      Sometimes there aren't any trumpets...
      Just lots of dragons. Sometimes....
      There aren't any medals to win....No
      Golden chalice, no honor in having fought
      A fierce dragon.

      Sometimes all you can say is, The day is
      Done and I have tried my best. Sometimes
      The very best you can do is to keep trying.
      And for those times it is courage that finds
      The way to try again....Tomorrow.

      I think a hero is an ordinary individual who
      Finds the strength to persevere and endure
      Overwhelming obstacles.

      Have courage for the great sorrows of life
      And patience for the small ones and you
      Have laboriously accomplished your daily
      Task....Go to sleep in peace, God is awake.

      Courage doesn't always roar, sometimes it's
      The quiet voice at the end of the day....Saying
      I will try again  tomorrow.

       ~~Mary Ann Radmacher~~

flickspire - 212 - The Extra Degree Movie

At 211° water is hot. At 212°, it boils. And with boiling water, comes steam. And steam can power a locomotive. The one extra degree makes the difference. This simple analogy reflects the ultimate definition of excellence.

So, sit back, crank up your speakers and watch this as many times as you need. You may forward it to those you care about and believe would benefit from its message as well.

flickspire - 212 - The Extra Degree Movie

We all know...A man who travels alone ..travels the fastest..My daughter teaches me how to travel together....

Understand your hyperactive child

Understand your hyperactive child

We all know...A man who travels alone ..travels the fastest..My daughter teaches me how to travel together....

We all know...A man who travels alone ..travels the fastest..My daughter teaches me how to travel together....

Buddies...

We all know...A man who travels alone ..travels the fastest..My daughter teaches me how to travel together....

We all know...A man who travels alone ..travels the fastest..My daughter teaches me how to travel together....

We all know...A man who travels alone ..travels the fastest..My daughter teaches me how to travel together....

The quote "It takes a village to raise a child," is a true statement.
Parenting is just one aspect of helping your children develop into
adulthood. Another aspect of development comes from those who are
involved in the child's environment. Next-door neighbors, dear
friends, and especially extended family, can play a large part in the
development of your child. Let me share with you how someone from
our extended family has helped us raise our children.

Tanni is my daughter's favorite Aunt. She was not married when my daughter was born and the time that she could so easily spend on herself was usually spent
on in helping her to grow up to be a strong and independent individual . She is the one who has enveloped my child with love and enriched her childhood. Her sharing, giving, and loving,attitude towards Aastha has been a constant source of guidance.

It's important for kids to have a source like "a Tanni."

Though parents are constantly trying to teaching their children
right from wrong, at some point their sermons may begin to turn into
repetitive, banal instruction. During these times, a "Tanni" can
become especially useful. The "Tannis" of your children's
environment can be a useful tool to validating your wishes. They can
teach your children in other ways that you as a parent cannot.
Some of the best things my child likes about her Tanzi are :-

She has lots of fun games (simple childhood games)

And she takes the time to bring her favourite junk foods. :) Kurkure, ice-creams and stuff

She brings in funky and trendy outfits.

I do some of the same things with my daughter too yet her involvement has a different impact on her. She has developed a peer relationship with her rather than
a parent relationship, and that strong peer relationship helps the
children to gain confidence and understanding from a different
perspective.

When a child can bond with someone who has high standards, impeccable
talents and skills, and a good work ethic, both parties will be better
off for it. The blessing that comes from building friendships can
happen between two people whether they are nine or ninety.

I've had many who have said to me, "You're lucky to have Tanni.'" I guess I am..:). But wise parents find people like Tanni and allow them into the lives of their children. I wish all the Gals here in Cheese Chilli Popcorn luck in
finding "a Tanni" to expand and cultivate the life of their own child!
Though she is married now to a wonderful Guy NOW...They both take out time to visit us whenever they are in Town and leave a warm and lasting impression better than before...:)))